Another reason people never leave an abusive relationship is reliance on the abusive partner.
Lack of Money:
Your friend may have become financially dependent on their abusive partner. Without money, it can seem impossible for them to leave the relationship.
Nowhere to Go:
Even if they could leave, your friend may think that they have nowhere to go or no one to turn to once they’ve ended the relationship. This feeling of helplessness can be especially strong if the person lives with their abusive partner.
Disability:
If your friend is physically dependent on their abusive partner, they can feel that their well-being is connected to the relationship. This dependency could heavily influence his or her decision to stay in an abusive relationship.
If any of these reasons is the reason you haven't left you need to start planning. Start by looking for a part time job and if he ask say, I am tired of staying at home and I want to help us say money so, we can go on family trips or do more with the kids. Come up with something where he will believe you. Play his game. If you need to talk or have questions. Leave a comment or PM me. I am here for you. I am not the judge your higher power is. Visit my website at findingfaithwithin.org
#letsspeakout #endingdomesticabsuee
#nomatterwhoitis
Your friend may have become financially dependent on their abusive partner. Without money, it can seem impossible for them to leave the relationship.
Nowhere to Go:
Even if they could leave, your friend may think that they have nowhere to go or no one to turn to once they’ve ended the relationship. This feeling of helplessness can be especially strong if the person lives with their abusive partner.
Disability:
If your friend is physically dependent on their abusive partner, they can feel that their well-being is connected to the relationship. This dependency could heavily influence his or her decision to stay in an abusive relationship.
If any of these reasons is the reason you haven't left you need to start planning. Start by looking for a part time job and if he ask say, I am tired of staying at home and I want to help us say money so, we can go on family trips or do more with the kids. Come up with something where he will believe you. Play his game. If you need to talk or have questions. Leave a comment or PM me. I am here for you. I am not the judge your higher power is. Visit my website at findingfaithwithin.org
#letsspeakout #endingdomesticabsuee
#nomatterwhoitis
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